If you’re also one of those guys who use dating apps such as Tinder and barely get any matches, well, it’s time to learn some important tips! It’s somewhat true that guys get fewer matches than gals, but it doesn’t necessarily have to happen that way in all cases. Although dating in real life is a much better idea than looking for a life partner online, it’s time to lend a hand to those who prefer the virtual realm!
It’s indeed possible to overcome any social or personal limitations and become a big hit with the ladies, even after meeting them online. Almost nobody trusts online interactions these days and for good reasons. That’s because you can be literally anyone you want when you’re hiding behind a smartphone or laptop. But as long as you’re honest in your online interactions, there’s not much to worry about.
Let’s cut to the chase and speak about some of the most powerful methods to get matches on Tinder as a guy:
Be honest
Making an honest profile on Tinder is a ‘must’ if you want to attract women. What do we mean by this? Simple: don’t write in your description that you have 4 expensive and fast cars in your backyard, a huge house with 10 floors, and a bank account bigger than the Statue of Liberty. You got the point: don’t lie like a complete son of a gun. Such lies will rapidly get uncovered as soon as you meet the woman whom you match in real life. If, on the other hand, you’re a very poor person and you’re ashamed of it, it’s best to focus on other aspects of your life when you complete your profile without mentioning your financial status. You can focus on the books you like to read, the places you’ve visited, what you want from your future life partner, and so on. There are ways of being a cool and attractive fellow, even without being rich.
Upload photos where you appear surrounded by friends
In general, girls are attracted by influential and popular men, which means that it’s best to surround yourself with other people in order to get matches. Make sure that you appear to display a positive attitude in those photos, as being kind and friendly is also a “must” while you look for a life partner. No woman likes to go out with the Grumpy Grinch, and let’s be honest: men also wouldn’t like a woman alongside them who disrespects and mistreats them.
Don’t be a hater
If you’re misogynistic, you hate Joe Biden, or you dream about conquering the world and enslaving people one day, at least don’t say those things in your profile presentation or during the first online interaction with your matches! Yes, we get it. You want to show the girl that you have some knowledge, a strong personality and that you have some idea of what’s going on in life, but that’s no good way to do it. Everybody knows that life in general and society in particular are far from being all sugar, spice, and everything nice. Nobody needs another drop of negativity in their life, at least not from the start of a relationship, whether it’s online or offline. You should instead focus on some of the positive aspects in life in your discussions with your new match. Surely, you can also find life enjoyable, at least a bit.
Don’t have high demands from the start
If you want 5 children and a faithful wife who doesn’t flirt with other guys and doesn’t even have any social media accounts, it’s best not to express those things in your first interactions or in your profile presentation. No woman likes commitments nowadays, and they will rapidly run away from a guy who seems to be “backward.” Nobody cares about the truth nowadays, either, so feel free to abstain from expressing any “radical” wishes, at least during the first interactions and the first dates with a match. If you truly have serious intentions with the girl you’ve met online, sure, go ahead and tell her what you truly want after you two went out a couple of times! If she will be disappointed by your demands, it’s time to move on.
Display a positive vibe
Try to be as positive as you can in your profile and your interactions with future matches. There’s no use trying to nag the girl for not knowing who the first President of the United States was, for instance. Don’t play the intellectual role unless you’re absolutely sure that your match is capable of keeping up. No woman likes to feel overwhelmed by a discussion partner.
At the same time, don’t be the type of guy who complains about the New World Order, about Joe Biden or Klaus Schwaab. As we already said, everybody knows that life is not all peaches and creams. When looking for love online, people usually look for someone to alleviate their existence, not making it worse.
You can have light discussions about your job and ask the girl about what she does for a living. You can talk about the weather, future concerts in your area, and a lot more. There’s no use being too judgemental from the start.
You got the point: getting more matches on Tinder and maintaining them is easy if you know how to play the game. Just go ahead and apply the steps mentioned above!
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